The Chronicles of Jack, Julia, and Adeline Fehskens

Come along with us as we follow Jack, Julia, and Adeline to infinity and beyond.

Monday, November 28, 2011

I (Fall) To Pieces

Hi, everyone!  Ah, what a wonderful season of life this has been.  Fall remains my favorite time of the year, and this one has proved more memorable than many, filled with family, fun, and frivolity (to quote Alec Baldwin as Charles Nelson Reilly).
Of course, foremost on the minds of those in our household is the imminent arrival of Julia, our darling little girl whom we already love and adore.  Every ring of my cell phone at work makes my heart stop a beat, as I check the ID, answer, and say, "YES?"  Unfortunately it usually means Chelsea forgot when my lunch ends and wanted to say hi, but one of these days it'll be something more...
In the meantime, we're realizing more and more why we wanted another child, as Jack is absolutely beautiful, creating a sphere of joy as he runs around.  It sounds strange, but he's starting to look older somehow, his face taking on more character and expression every day as he discovers the world around him.
We have recently had a visit from Rocky (Chelsea's brother) with his wife Diana and their children Emma and Lily, been to an Eve-fest birthday party, enjoyed a wonderful Thanksgiving with the aforementioned Fehskens in Baltimore, and bought a lovely tree and decorated it in our home.  Below find some of these memories--we're so happy to share them with you, and hopefully by the next time I post, we'll have even more love to share.
















Thursday, September 29, 2011

Hi everyone!
We've been offline for quite a while, due to a combination of technical difficulties and familial obligations. Thankfully, both have been resolved and enjoyed.
First, our camera broke! I unceremoniously dropped it immediately upon exiting the car on our way to visit Ted and Erin in Towson. There was no excuse. So for weeks we subsisted upon a manual lens that the aforementioned relatives graciously lent. It worked, but the ease of use was gone, so we got lazy and didn't take many pictures.
Chelsea, in her infinite practicality, has obtained us a new automatic lens, so anticipate many new photos soon.
Family-wise, I enjoyed a bachelor party for Jazz that is now engraved upon our fraternal minds and a few digital images as well. After that, we made our way to New York for the matrimonial bonding of Josh and Brittany; a beautiful time that I've uploaded to Facebook.
So for now, to get back into the swing of things, I've uploaded a precious video to me; Jack talking and enjoying a conversation with me while he's in the bathtub. Links are provided below. God I love this boy.

Click here for the Youtube link.

Click here for the Vimeo link.

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Putting a frame around life.

Howdy everyone! About a month ago we met with a friend of mine from school, Tyler Rieth. Tyler is a music teacher and a great guy, and is also starting his own photography business. As a way to build his portfolio, he said he'd do a photo shoot with Jack for pretty much nothing! Since we've never done professional pictures with the boy, we jumped at the chance.
So on June 30th, we drove about 10 minutes to Harford Glen, a beautiful nature preserve that my school uses sometimes as a location for science field trips. It has wooden bridges over wetlands and creeks, lovely trees and long paths for walking.
There we spent a few hours posing the boy, who was VERY patient! If you look at the color photos, you can see his pink, rosy cheeks--that's because it was over 80 degrees outside and he was in the sun most of the time! (With plenty of shade breaks and bottles of water).
So--hope you enjoy. These are the ones we loved the most--we received over 40 great photos. If anybody in the Maryland area would like a great local photographer, ask me for Tyler's contact info.















Friday, July 15, 2011

It's a Girl!

Yeah, so, Chelsea and I went to the baby doctor today to get the sonogram and heeeey it's a GIRL! What makes this pretty neat is that 2 nights ago we did the "wedding ring" trick, where you suspend the husband's wedding ring by a string above the womb. Supposedly, if it moves with the motion of a pendulum, it's a boy, and circular motion means a girl. It worked perfectly for Jack--we have a video of that, too. Well, you'll see in this video as well that there must be some truth to the old wives' tales, because almost like it's being drawn by a polarized magnet, the ring goes crazy. Enjoy.
(P.S. The YouTube video is the only one working right now; I'll upload the Vimeo one within a day, so check back!).

Click HERE to watch it on YouTube!

Friday, June 24, 2011

Jack at Joanne's


Most of you that read this blog have been around Jack and understand just what a force of nature we're dealing with here. He is all boy, all the time. I don't have to worry about exercising because I run more chasing after Jack than I ever did before fatherhood. That being said, your experiences have mostly been confined to Jack in a living room or something. I present below exactly 2 minutes' sample of what it's like taking Jack to the store when he's not strapped into a cart.

For YouTube version, click HERE!

For Vimeo version, click HERE!

Saturday, May 7, 2011

The boys are back in town

Hello! It's been a while since we were able to put some new joy up here, but there's been so much going on that it's hard to find a minute sometimes. Enough fake apologies. I'm going to overdo it this time with 2 videos. I hope you enjoy them as much as I have.
To succinctly state: I am supremely blessed. God continues to form this family with an astounding reverberative amplification of the deep love I feel for these two blondies. Chelsea and I celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary this past Thursday, and man it just keeps getting better. As far as Jack goes (like the double meaning?), he has recently begun pushing 2 new teeth out, dealing with seasonal allergies (sorry for the genes, bud) and walking like a determined baby orangutan. He will NOT hold your hand while doing this; he's got it, thanks. He's also getting over his distaste for grass; at first, it was all pavement, all the time, and while that is still his preferred surface, he's branching out, just in time for summer.
Enough. Find below links and love from us to you.

Video 1

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Video 2
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Friday, April 15, 2011

I'm A-Thinkin' And A-Wonderin' And A-Walkin' Down The Road

As some of you have heard, Jack pretty much just decided to start walking about two weeks ago. First he was taking 3 steps at a time. The next day, 5. Then he was up to 7 two days later. Then at the doctor's office three days later it was 12 steps in a row. And now, well, he's just doing it.
This suddenly makes real a large number of previously hypothetical situations. Almost every single parent we've told has said something to the effect of, "Now you're in for it!" But I'm finding that phrase to have almost absolutely no meaning; the same was said to us with Jack's first tooth, the first time he turned over, when he started crawling, and solid foods. I'm to the point now where any progress is good progress, and if I have to catch this kid trying to tackle a set of stairs, well, then I'll be there.
Glad to say he's over his sickness as well. He's sleeping soundly, playing loudly, and continuing to be the apple and the orange in both my eyes. Below find 2 links, suitable to your video-viewing preference.

For Youtube users: click HERE!

For Vimeo preferrers: click HERE!

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Jack's First Birthday!


Well, it finally came! We celebrated Jack's first birthday on Saturday, March 19th (despite the fact that he was born on the 21st). It was truly splendid, as many many friends showed up to wish him the best. Church friends, school friends, aunts, uncles, and grandmas were there. As you can see, he especially enjoyed the cake and the new rocket ship.
Where else from here? Well, he's already walking three steps at a time, so we expect that to continue. His mobility is a scary thing, but it's got to happen. He got his 1-year checkup and everything looks good. So all we can say is happy birthday Jack, we love you, and we look forward to many more years together.

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Roses are red, violets are blue, and time is beginning to crawl.













Hello again! Writing this on a Saturday that began way too early. Jack is passed out in his swing, Chelsea is cutting invitations for Matthew and Isabel's wedding, and I'm listening to Oh! Mercy and catching up on the little things. It's been a fun few weeks, with days off of school due to ice, rain, or whatever, and days that felt like they lasted an eternity, more than making up for the time off.
Jack is right on the cusp of many things right now. He can walk, more or less, as long as he has one hand on something for support. A few days ago he stood for a full twenty seconds alone as Chelsea watched; when he turned and realized he wasn't leaning on her anymore, plop! Down he went. But I'm guessing those stretches will get longer as his chubby little legs start to do their job.
He's also talking a mile a minute. We're starting to recognize certain sounds; when hungry, he yells "Ba ba ba ba baaaa!!!" Whenever he sees me or plays with a guitar while I'm gone, it's "Dad dad dad." And when he's annoyed, it's "Ma ma moooom!"
Uh oh, sounds like he's waking up. I'll post these pictures and be off. Enjoy!

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Our First Christmas

Here are a few pictures from our first Christmas as a family. They are in reverse order so you may want to scroll to the bottom and work your way back up.






















Sunday, December 19, 2010

Well I'm a-gonna raise a fuss an' I'm a-gonna raise a holler...

Hello, friends. As Chelsea's last entry so pertinently pointed out, this has indeed become more of a media sharing site re: Jack than any kind of blog. I think it's time that changed as well, so let me tell you a few of the things we've been experiencing and THEN you can watch the video that's linked at the bottom of this log.
Jack has been evincing many of the signs of teething without too much to show for it. He got his two bottom teeth within about two weeks of each other, and nothing since then. HOWEVER, he has been drooling pools, fussing and crying (hence the 50s song title) and waking up three times a night without any other obvious reason. I'm hoping that means he's going to sprout some Bugs Bunny-esque incisors before terribly long, but maybe he's just trying to keep us on our toes.
He has also decisively identified us with our appellations; namely (ha!) he knows that if he wants our attention, to call "Mom" or "Dad" as loud as he can. We, of course, always respond; I mean, it could be URGENT! There are two funny examples here.
One: He had finished his dinner and was sitting in the high chair while Chelsea and I got lost in a discussion while doing some housework. He bubbled along by himself for a few minutes until he realized that we weren't paying attention to him, so he looked across the room and screamed, "DAD!" Chelsea and I both stopped dead, realizing this was a conscious act by him and not just babbling. Crazy.
Secondly--and more sweetly--Jack wakes up in the morning desperate for a bottle; he doesn't even know you're there until after he's had one. So I picked him up one morning at around 5:30 and gave it to him; he inhaled the entire thing in less than 2 minutes. I put him on the floor to monkey around while I tried to close my eyes for a second. When placed on the floor, he turned around, pulled himself to a standing position with the couch, and put his hand on my leg until I looked at him. He looked in my eyes, smiled, and said, "Dad." That's the best good-morning I've gotten for a while.
The video below contains quite a few cute pictures that include all the lovely folks at Memommy's party. Hope you enjoy it. Note on the song: it doesn't have anything to do with family or Christmas, but sounds lovely and I'm rereading Moby-Dick right now so a sea-shanty seemed appropriate.

Click HERE to watch the video.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

8 Months

Well it seems that this blog has turned more into a picture/video book than a true blog. Sorry about that for any of you that enjoy reading more about his activities than viewing pictures. I for one always like looking at pictures more so I guess that is why I do not type much. ANYWAYS!

I am amazed at this little boy of ours, he is doing different things everyday and will be 8 months tomorrow already. I have a hard time keeping track of everything. He was crawling around the floor and pulled himself up to me on the couch just to stand there and smile at me. It just about melted me to the floor, then he tried to grab the computer and I realized his true motivation was the computer not me. teehee! He does have two teeth now and it seems like he is working on some more by the amount of drool that is dripping onto our rugs. He also is self feeding anything you give him, so far he loves Puffs, scrambled eggs, baby mum-mum crackers, and tofu. He will bang on the highchair until you give him something that he can feed himself while he eats the rest of his normal meal. This whole routine is funny to me to watch happen at least 3 times a day but he gets rather serious about it if I am not fast enough for his liking.
I am currently working a lot due to the holiday and Jack is faring well with having what almost seems like single parenting. He gets super excited if we are all on the rug together or go for a trip, it is like he cannot believe that he is so lucky to have to grown up toys that amuse him and bend to his every need. This was very evident when the cashier at walmart made the comment " I would pass out too after 2 bottles"- Jack had just polished off the 2nd a few moment prior.
This year the holidays seem extra special even with the crazy schedules and not being able to travel because it marks the first time I get to share all the experiences with him. I am sure we will take more pictures than necessary in the next month but this will be our way of sending all the fun here in Baltimore out to anyone who checks this blog. I will write more soon but probably after another milestone or two! XO!!!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

But Those People Keep A-Movin'...

So...Jack is now crawling. He kind of figured it out on a Monday and by the following Friday he was screaming across the carpet getting into EVERYTHING. He loves being able to move; it's practically balancing out how much he hates having new teeth coming in. Very busy week for this guy.

Click HERE to see Jack in action!

Sunday, November 7, 2010

October 2010

Hello, friends! It seems like fall has come and gone already, my favorite morbid holiday and the sharp tang of autumn leaves already departing on a too-brisk wind. Work, life, and play have been parading by in cycles, and our young man has been busier than all of us trying to squeeze the most out of every moment. Jack is so...involved that it's hard to realize he's not even a year old yet. It's hard to remember life before this guy.
Uncle Ted visited, we visited the clan in North Carolina, good times were had. Enjoy the video.
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Thursday, September 30, 2010

Delicious Baby!



Jack tastes so darn good, I just can't help it. His laugh doesn't hurt either.

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The Copying Game



Jack showing off his various skills in imitating and/or making his own sounds. It's amazing, a lot of the noises he makes are ones he can't do anymore. Shows how much societal conditioning can limit our abilities. Anyway, cute baby.

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Tyrannosaurus Jack



Jack discovered his shadow the same week that we tried out the Johnny Jumper. I don't know if he's roaring just to amuse himself or if it's actually at the shadow, but it's pretty hilarious to watch. He was really enjoying himself.

Click HERE to go to the video!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

And I Like You

So, it finally worked! The link below should lead you to Vimeo, a video hosting site that provides MUCH better quality for our slideshows than the native feature on blogger. So open the link below and push Play to enjoy the newest pictures of Jack, even at full-screen!


http://vimeo.com/14971708